On Exploring Kink

BDSM social events and us – a fun evening out.

I haven’t written in a while, I know, and in some ways that’s because I haven’t felt like I have had anything to actually write about. Our youngest son has now left home and we thought this might give us more freedom to explore our BDSM interests, which in theory it does, but with neighbours and thin walls we haven’t been able to take spanking (or impact play in general) at home any further which is a shame as we both really enjoyed the last one a lot.

Back to the BDSM munches.

Mr H’s on call schedule finally worked out so we could once again attend the BDSM socials at The Townhouse, and we enjoy them a lot. There is nothing quite like it. The Townhouse is an amazing venue and the atmosphere that Vicky and Jim created is one where you feel completely at ease and safe to explore BDSM. The monthly munches give you an opportunity to meet other like minded people, play in the rooms, use equipment, have a good time and make as much noise as you like!

Baby Steps.

Yesterday Mr H and I decided that we would take those first steps towards playing at the club by trying a spanking. We paid our extra money, and were given wristbands. I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t nervous. While there are a number of rooms that you can use at Townhouse, I do struggle to get up and down stairs and we couldn’t quite remember exactly what equipment was in which room. There are tours that they do during the munch where you get to look around the rooms and ask questions, but my mobility means we can’t do this again (we did one the first time we went).

We spent the first hour or so talking to people we had met before. We laughed, talked and listened to their tales, the fun they had been having at events. Mr H got up and when he returned he held out his hand to me. It was time.

BDSM social events and us – a fun evening out.

The spanking.

We went up the stairs to the main BDSM play room, and Mr H got the spanking bench out. This room has a window and although there is a voile over it you can still see into the room from the corridor. I leaned over the bench and Mr H began. I thought he was going to pull my leggings and panties down but he didn’t. After a short time I asked if he ought to be able to see how read my skin was getting and he must have agreed this was a good idea as he pulled my clothes down out of the way. I don’t know if there was an element of embarrassment in case people were outside the room looking in, but this did push me into a more submissive mental place.

We weren’t upstairs long, and I don’t know how many spanks I had, but I began to feel a little spaced out and so Mr H called a halt. We went back downstairs and cuddled while I came back round.

We both enjoyed it and we will definitely do it again. And, I can’t wait!

Sweetgirl x

Sweet Autumn Rose  

 

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6 Comments

  1. It sounds like you had a great time. I’m happy you got the opportunity
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    1. We did I can’t wait for next time!

  2. Hi sweetgirl. I’m happy you have a safe place to enjoy your noisy play. I once read ‘how sad we must suppress the sounds of passionate love ‘. Ain’t it the truth. My Master just moved us to a house in a private setting and you helped me realize how lucky We are to be able to make noise and practice our lifestyle 24/7 (my dream). And our nearest children are 2 1/2 hours away. The drawback with this though is we won’t be attending any munches
    I enjoy your blog!

    Warmly
    elskling

    1. That sounds amazing you are very lucky! I’m so glad you enjoy the blog

  3. Sweet this was a great occasion and you got the chance to do what you love but take it gradually. After such a long break that’s the way to go.
    I’m sorry you can’t play the way you want to at home, we don’t have much privacy either, so I can relate.

    1. It was lots of fun, and next time Mr H is thinking about taking some of his other toys!

      I suppose very few of us get an ideal living situation for our lifestyles… unless we’re lucky enough to live in a detached house with no close neighbours!!!

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