A long time ago, I wrote a post in which I said I wasn’t a masochist and Mr H wasn’t a sadist. I’m here to say I think I need to amend that statement.
Well and truly Spanked
You may remember my recent post ‘A Wonderful Surprise Spanking for Sweetgirl’, in which I described my first ever hard core (by my standards) hand spanking. If you missed it go read it quick – I’ll wait…..
Well my backside bruised up. I remember saying once that I have enough trouble sitting down without bruises to worry about as well (I’m paraphrasing) and so I was pleasantly surprised to find they didn’t hurt.
In fact, it became a bit of a thing. Every Morning we would take pictures of the bruises and marvel at their development. Mr H grinned every morning seeing them, which made me very proud of them.
I purchased some Arnicare cream, as it is meant to help bruises heal, and Mr H applied it that evening, the next morning the bruises had significantly faded. I think Mr H was rather disappointed and he commented that they would need “re-doing”.
I honestly didn’t think that being marked would be a thing either of us would want but as with many things we should not dismiss them until tried (except sharing – sharing I absolutely know I will not like).
Do any of you, dear readers, enjoy getting bruised by your Dominant from impact play? Please share with me using the comments!
Planning a repeat?
I can say with absolute certainty this will be something we do again, and it has given Mr H a boost to know how much harder he can go in the right circumstances.
My headspace has to be right. I know that if I am not fully in the moment it will be much harder to not call “red” and end play. If I am not feeling my connection to Mr H I am not sure how well it would work and I think there has to be some element of sexual stimuli for me too. That helps me relax and build the connection.
The location has to be right too. I cried out a lot, so definitely not a hotel activity (unless we want to cause a scene!) We also know it isn’t something we can explore at home if J is home. At the moment the house next door is empty but when someone moves in we will need some kind of cover noise. Loud music etc.
It is going to require further experimentation and that will be so much fun.
I suppose you want to see the bruises don’t you you pervert! Just kidding – you’re in good company…. Here they are…
This post has been linked to Wicked Wednesday #501 “Looking Back on 2021” Click HERE to see other posts linked to the topic.