On Being a Submissive

Oh fudge!

Or something similar….. I ordered some shoes.  I didn’t ask permission.  I have no idea why I didn’t ask, I usually do. The only exception is if I’ve ordered things for work and then we haven’t paid for them or we’re getting the money back.

I’ve been looking for some shoes for work for about 6 weeks now. I needed some flat but not really flat shoes. That might not seem to make sense but honestly it does! Some flat shoes have really thin soles and they offer no support or cushioning under your feet. Trying to find some flat shoes that don’t look like something my great grandmother would have picked is really challenging!

I have already ordered (with permission) a pair which when they arrived were absolutely hideous so I returned them for a refund (thank you Amazon!). I continued to search for the elusive black flat shoes not quite every day, but a couple of times a week without really finding something suitable. When I spotted these particular shoes I think I must have just thought oh wow get em before they are gone and swipe left they were ordered.

They arrived today.

They fit.

All good things.

Then MrH said, “I don’t recall you asking permission to order them.”


I admitted that I don’t think I did. I have no idea if he plans to dish out a punishment. Time will tell I guess.

Sweetgirl x

Sweet Autumn Rose  


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  1. Shoes are always a necessity, especially ones so pretty and comfy as these, I also think they should be exempt! Hope he agrees when he sees them on you…☺️

  2. While I have made some “unauthorized purchases” here and there, it’s never been shoes. I will say that if I did that, I believe my husband WOULD let me keep them. However, they would be kept as a spanking implement and immediately be broken is as such. Good luck!

    1. I think I’m allowed to keep them because I need the work shoes… MrH wouldn’t/couldn’t use them as a spanking implement as that is on my Hell no list (my stepdad used shoes to spank me as a child and so it would have a negative impact).

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