Reflecting on 2020: Covid 19, Chronic Pain and Isolation.
What a year 2020 has been. I don’t think anyone’s world is unchanged. So many…
Return of the cane: how pain tolerance changes over time.
In my last post I wrote how our D/s was somewhat diminished by our my…
How to cope when your D/s becomes D/s Less
2020 has kicked our D/s Asses. My chronic pain and all the side effects of…
How to stay positive when life sucks
I think it is fair to say for many people right now life kinda sucks….
Why I hate being in constant pain.
Constant pain, burning pain, breathtaking pain. Unless I am asleep I am in pain. Things…
My hospital appointment was cancelled. Now what?
Yes, you read that right, my hospital appointment has been cancelled. It’s not like I…
Fiction Relay Part 3 – Detective Walker.
The story so far. Susie was murdered back in the summer of 1995.Eleven years pass…
How to stick to your diet when you’re in pain.
When you are in pain all the time, sticking to your diet is often the…
The truth about being a submissive wife.
Did you read 50 shades and imagine that was your life? Do you want to…
How to Find Liberty: Being Emotionally Naked
For many years I was ashamed of my body. I avoided mirrors, and was convinced…
How I’m Letting Go of Negativity and Feeling Great!
Letting go of learned behaviours must be one of the hardest things to do. I…
Taz, the Tasmanian Devil.
I watched cartoons a lot as a child, I mean, a lot. My youngest sibling…
Random Posts
Take it to the Edge.
Edge Play, in terms of BDSM, is play which can be seen as extremely risky….
Equipment to Help Around The Home
On Friday, I was visited by a lovely lady, who came to see what adjustments…
An everyday bra
Or is that a bra for everyday? @TheKnickerFairy on Twitter is a lovely lady who is…
Jingle Bells
I swear I can hear bells ringing, but with the blindfold in place I can’t…
Blogging from A2Z 2019: Effort
Relationships require effort and I think that a D/s relationship requires more than most. I’m…
Fear
I shared a post a few weeks ago about squirting orgasms in “Overcoming Embarrassment” and…