Exploring Kink as a Monogamous Married Couple
Mr H likes making things, although he is never fully satisfied with the outcome I think the things he creates are beautiful. Within a Kink context, MrH has made me collars, jewelry, accessories and he has made himself impact toys. When he starts a new project he gets out his crafts box, working away and concentrating. I can see the calm enjoyment settle over him and the happiness when the project is done. He has made things with paracord and chainmaille (aluminium and Sterling silver). …
The decision to wear a collar or not is of course entirely personal. It doesn’t make you any less of a submissive if you don’t wear a solid collar with a padlock so big your neighbour could see it without their binoculars! Your dynamic is private and personal to you – so if your Dom says you’re not a good submissive because you want something discrete or don’t want a collar at all, he is probably not the Dominant you want or are safe with. …