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How to carry on when you’re not feeling it

updated on June 19, 2021June 19, 202111 Comments

Well hello – been a while hasn’t it? I’m like the crap friend who doesn’t call or stay in touch, and well the truth is I have not had anything to write about. Nothing kinky. Nothing even remotely sexual. Our D/s dynamic is hanging by a thread, and I have no idea how or if …

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Why make changes to the site?

updated on March 7, 2021March 7, 202129 Comments

You may have noticed a few changes to the site appearance over the last few weeks. In fact every spring I have done so – made changes I mean – to the way the site looks. But why change it again? I mean it looked great, I spent ages designing it… Well…. Last year I …

How to cope when your D/s becomes D/s Less

updated on November 5, 2020November 5, 202027 Comments

2020 has kicked our D/s Asses. My chronic pain and all the side effects of that have brought our D/s activities to a resolute stop and it has not only highlighted how much we enjoy them, but how they have become part of our normal lives. D/s, D’not. We used to partake 2 cane sessions …

The truth about being a submissive wife.

updated on August 19, 2020August 19, 202014 Comments

Did you read 50 shades and imagine that was your life? Do you want to know what it is really like? Well, I am here today to share my experience and to tell you the truth about being a submissive wife. The truth will out. A while ago I wrote a post, ‘So you want …

The Punishment

updated on July 15, 2020July 15, 202016 Comments

I broke a rule and so a punishment is in order. I don’t know what the punishment will be, but with J at work I know Mr. H has more scope. I’m nervous and a little excited too, but mostly I feel bad for having broken the rule. Mr. H does not like to punish …

I wonder….?

updated on April 28, 2020March 27, 2020Leave a Comment

I am a naturally curious person. I have always wanted to know how machines work, and what makes people act the way they do. My mum says that as soon as I learned to ask “why?” she didn’t get a moments peace, never satisfied with her answers, I would ask “but why?” over and over …

Being Intimate.

updated on April 28, 2020February 29, 2020Leave a Comment

Last night S2 went out with some friends and Mr H and I were alone. You may recall from my post No sex, no desire. that we have had a blip when it comes to being intimate, but had spoken about the reasons and were planning to rectify the situation. Finding time and space to …

No Sex, No Desire.

updated on April 28, 2020February 21, 20201 Comment

I have written before about how, when we are less sexually active my submission and desire quickly vanish. I become snippy and argumentative. I am not as submissive in my mindset and from a sexual point of view, I go cold. A loss of libido if you will. When this happens it takes something deliberate …

I plan to fuck you

updated on May 28, 2020January 12, 202010 Comments

We have talked a lot following my post Hairy Pussy and Prioritising Intimacy. Earlier today I asked if he had a plan for this afternoon, I confess I was really hoping his answer wasn’t going to be doing the laundry. It wasn’t. I plan to fuck you stupid, was his reply. The plan in action. …

Hairy Pussy

updated on May 28, 2020January 11, 202028 Comments

One of my rules is that I am supposed to be shaved every day, ready to be fucked. It isn’t like it is too much to ask is it? Mr H likes to eat pussy and, he doesn’t want to be faced with a hairy pussy. I can understand that because I prefer MrH to …

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