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Reclaim my arse

We spent the day in the local a&e and although they gave me some more pain medication we did not achieve our goal; forward movement in a treatment plan.  On the way home I asked Mr H to reclaim my arse.

Knees up please.

I did undergo all the usual tests which included my least favourite, the finger up the bum and being asked to squeeze their finger test.  No really, that’s an actual test, to see if the anal sphincter muscles are working.  The doctor told me I once again have reduced anal tone.  Gee thanks!

Mr H doesn’t share.

Rather than glare with murderous intent at the doctor as he performed this test, Mr H went to get me a reward.  A hot chocolate and a muffin.  I did giggle at the idea of getting a reward for letting someone put their finger in my bum which made Mr H smile.

I need you to reclaim my arse.

I’m sure you can understand why having had this test, and a stranger put his finger up my bum, I wanted Mr H to make me his again.  Not one to leave his property unclaimed, Mr H wasted no time.  The gloves were out with the lube and I was told to ass-ume the position.  “Now, pull down your pants.”

Spoiler Alert.

This image has been deliberately created and posed.  I don’t want anyone to think that given my current medical issues Mr H would not actually do this.  Although when we have some resolution I will absolutely be looking forward to some play time.  While I was setting up the camera to focus on his hand our two furbabies set up shop on the bed.  They are always so helpful! 

Sweetgirl x

Sweet Autumn Rose  


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  1. Ha! The cats! 😛

    That test sounds… Testy. *scowl*

    I’m sorry you are not yet getting the resolution you seek. Sending you thoughts of comfort and healing.


    1. Thank you xx

  2. I’m sorry that you are having to go through these types of tests. My Dom (my hubby) had to go through these types of tests due to decreased anal tone. He received a medical diagnosis in 2017 that is primarily diagnosed in women and if you are experiencing anything similar my heart goes out to you. Feel free to reach out to chat

    1. thank you Mrs B, they suspect cauda equina, but this is a long term and recurring theme for me, at the moment I am waiting for them to pull their finger out and do some surgery to stabilize my spine…

      sweetgirl x

  3. I didn’t realize there was an actual test for that! Great creation of the image, and I love that the cats came out to ‘play’ too 😉

    Rebel xox

    1. or get in the ruddy way lol … and unfortunately yes there is lol x

  4. Sorry to hear about your unexpected a&e journey. Great images xx

    1. thank you 🙂

  5. Sorry you’re going through this. Being reclaimed is so important.

    1. it will be x

  6. Wishing you a speedy relief from your health troubles xx
    I love the clever photo edit, it radiates trust, humour and the affection between you. (Also; bonus cats – win!!)

    1. We make each other laugh when we can, I think it is an important thing to have between you, as much as affection their must be joy. x

  7. I can totally understand that Sweet. Hope u both had a great time x
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    1. It was fun taking the pictures lol

  8. I can understand wanting to reclaim your body and hope that you get that chance, as well as some relief soon. Great image and I liked the addition of the cats 🙂
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    1. Thank you ☺️

  9. Ha! Cats seem to be the feature of both your and my image this week


  10. I love, love, love the trust and humour between you guys. What you are going through has to be tough and could make you feel so unsexy so GO YOU for refusing to let it. I totally see the need for the reclaim, and I love that you shared it with us! Heck the cats wanted to join in too – what a pair of divas they are, but you gotta love ’em.
    Hugs to you and fingers crossed for forward movement in your treatment plan very soon. xx

    1. thank you posy xx

  11. I’m wishing you some timely relief and glad that Mr H helped you feeling reclaimed, that matters so very much I think when going through any types of difficulties. Gorgeous cats too as an added bonus!

    1. thank you, The reclaiming is on hold until feeling comes back. lol

  12. I am sorry that you are having to go through this. Cats are so very helpful.

    1. Thank you and they are very helpful lol

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