Exploring Kink as a Monogamous Married Couple
Red is the colour of my beautiful shoes. Red, (and black of course), are the colours of my new anniversary lingerie set, and the set in the featured image. Red is for passion and danger, so it fits that it is used as a safeword by many practitioners of BDSM. Red. My final safeword. The stop word. I think I’ve used it, two or three times. I tend to use yellow, which signals that I am nearing my limit more often than not. This is …
It isn’t often Mr H tells me to give him a blow job but it is something I find highly enjoyable. I think my favourite way is when he kneels me in front of him and as well as allowing me to pleasure him, he can also take charge and use my mouth to fuck me. There’s something, don’t ask me what, that really turns me on, when I kneel in front of him. Having his cock my my mouth too is awesome, ticks another …
If you are a regular follower you will know I got a box of goodies from Satisfyer to play with and review. As you can see they are very generous! I have already reviewed the Charming Smiles as a guest blogger for the wonderful Eve Adler and the Satisfyer Multifunction (the pink one) as a guest blogger for Purplesole and LittleGem. I was impressed with the quality of the toys as well as the design and waterproof nature of their products. Anyway, let’s get to …
The F4TF prompt this week is music, and I’ve written a few posts this month focusing on music for the September Songs prompt, so for this one I decided to focus on why I need music in my life, what it gives me, and how I use it in different situations. Mostly I need familiar sounds in the background to enable me to focus, and music is the best way for me to achieve that focus. Music for the soul. I have playlists for work …
Early in our D/s MrH made me a night collar out of paracord. I love it. I love that he made it and now he has made me a new purple collar. My first day chain wasn’t suitable to sleep or play in so I wanted something suitable for these occasions. MrH is skilled at making things out of paracord and so I asked if he could make me a collar to sleep in and he did. My first collar, was made in just a …
I really wasn’t sure I could write for this prompt. It feels too close, too raw, but i decided to just put down a few lines and link my recent posts so I’m not repeating myself too much. Both our sons have now considered suicide, our youngest just a Few weeks ago. T battled the impulse for years (When your children suffer), I’m hoping that J will not. T refused to take medication. J takes it. I have had my own mental health battles, (I …
There is nothing I love more than Sunday Surprise Anal Sex; it doesn’t happen often, but that makes it even more special. A Normal Sunday. At 8pm UK time I toddled along to The Safewords Club for the chat. There’s usually a topic but sometimes it’s an open chat. This Sunday things went off on a tangent as a number of us have been lucky enough to receive a gift box from Satisfyer and so we all began discussing and comparing experiences. Part of our …
When I first heard this song by Darren Hayes I was captivated. It’s so damn sexy. It’s my favourite song to listen to when I masturbate or during sex, and most of the time, it brings a happy ending- if you get my drift! I feel that the lyrics are sensual, and throughout the verse you feel the tension build, the desperation, and finally the chorus flows into a climax. Here are the lyrics incase you want to sing along 😁… When moonlight crawls along …
The latest prompt from the Tell Me About meme by The Safewords Club, is Rituals. I’ve written about this subject a few times and you can read them via the links at the bottom of the post. Fair warning there may be some repetition but I will do my best not to do it too much! So, without further blathering, let’s get to it, and talk about Rituals! The Oxford English Dictionary says that this word originates in the 16th century (at least as an …
MrH has been at work today and my sciatic nerves have decided to firmly Express how unhappy they are that I walked so far last Saturday. I’m in a lot of new pain and I can’t take any more pain meds, you know, cos I already rattle! MrH knew how I was feeling and decided to use the butt plug to distract me. I received a message: Go and put the butt plug in, the one with the jewel in. Mr H, via Whatsaap on …