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Why make changes to the site?

updated on March 7, 2021March 7, 202129 Comments

You may have noticed a few changes to the site appearance over the last few weeks. In fact every spring I have done so – made changes I mean – to the way the site looks. But why change it again? I mean it looked great, I spent ages designing it… Well…. Last year I …

How to keep your mind from going mad

updated on January 11, 2021January 11, 202119 Comments

In this new lockdown, as with others, one of the things I see most on social media is how bored people are, going mad, stir crazy, locked up in their homes with their families. I find this saddening and fascinating at the same time. We spend so much time busy with our lives, running here …

Real love, lockdown and being cared for.

updated on January 7, 2021January 6, 202121 Comments

Well hello 2021. Mr. H and I saw in the new year the way we always do, in bed, sleeping. Real Love. That’s what we have, real love. Not fancy, not glamorous. Just real. The UK is locked down again. Not surprising for most of us and yet despite all the restrictions and warnings from …

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Reflecting on 2020: Covid 19, Chronic Pain and Isolation.

updated on December 21, 2020December 21, 202020 Comments

What a year 2020 has been. I don’t think anyone’s world is unchanged. So many have lost loved ones, whether that be from covid 19, or not, and so much loneliness caused by isolation either from fear of infection or from the national and regional lockdowns, 2020 has been a year of desperation and uncertainty …

Return of the cane: how pain tolerance changes over time.

updated on November 16, 2020November 16, 202026 Comments

In my last post I wrote how our D/s was somewhat diminished by our my present condition, and how our impact play had stopped altogether. Well – I have news! The cane is back. I think I am going to get the cane out. Mr H announced this when I asked him what he wanted …

How to cope when your D/s becomes D/s Less

updated on November 5, 2020November 5, 202027 Comments

2020 has kicked our D/s Asses. My chronic pain and all the side effects of that have brought our D/s activities to a resolute stop and it has not only highlighted how much we enjoy them, but how they have become part of our normal lives. D/s, D’not. We used to partake 2 cane sessions …

How to stay positive when life sucks

updated on October 17, 2020October 17, 202016 Comments

I think it is fair to say for many people right now life kinda sucks. We are unable to enjoy the freedoms we did in order to ensure the NHS can cope with the number of people that are unwell, and to protect as many vulnerable people as possible. Covid 19 will, I think, be …

The truth about being a submissive wife.

updated on August 19, 2020August 19, 202014 Comments

Did you read 50 shades and imagine that was your life? Do you want to know what it is really like? Well, I am here today to share my experience and to tell you the truth about being a submissive wife. The truth will out. A while ago I wrote a post, ‘So you want …

Taz, the Tasmanian Devil.

updated on August 6, 2020August 6, 202011 Comments

I watched cartoons a lot as a child, I mean, a lot. My youngest sibling was born when I was a few months away from 10 and he became my real life doll. I spent hours entertaining and supervising him when my mum had driving lessons, or when my parents went out, but the character …

There’s no fate but what we make.

updated on July 29, 2020July 29, 202010 Comments

Yes I know this quote about fate is blatantly stolen from The Terminator and often quoted but it isn’t really something I believe. I have written before about how I believe our lifes are mapped out and that in many ways free will is an illusion. When we make a choice we were always ment …

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