Exploring Kink as a Monogamous Married Couple
When our relationship first came to include BDSM, I imagined every single possible moment would be filled with sex. I wouldn’t be able to move without Mr H thrusting a hard cock into me and telling me what how he was proud of me, and how he loved I was always ready for him. Of course I was not realising that the truth of the dynamic I asked for, being submissive to Mr H, meant accepting he would be the Dominant. He would be in …
The Disney film The Little Mermaid has always been one of my favourites and I believe they are planning to release a live action version of it, as they have done with Beauty and the Beast, Aladin, and Cinderella. I have enjoyed each of these adaptations and I will watch the Little Mermaid to see if they have done it justice. This week the Tie Me Up tie is the mermaid tie, and I asked Mr H if we could do it as I thought …
What do you wear for a party when you are into kinky things like rope bondage? When we went to our first BDSM event TAT2 I wore fishnets and black (I have included an image in the slideshow) and Mr H wore a black shirt and trousers. I felt very sexy and I was pleased with how the outfit turned out. We do go to munches when we can, and Mr H liked the idea of me having some rope work under my top which …
Tie me Up Tuesday is a great project and I am trying to join in as much as possible, but that isn’t always easy with my situation. If I don’t think we can do the tie (for logistical reasons – see here) I am planning to use a photo of some past rope ties that fit. This is one of those situations. I’m not sure if there is a ‘name’ for this one but I am calling it the ‘girdle tie’. I have re-edited for the …
I love being tied, and the new meme ‘Tie Me Up Tuesday’ is so much fun! Giving us an excuse to get the rope out more frequently. This week the tie prompt is ‘chest harness’ and unfortunately I can’t sit or stand at the moment for Mr H to do this, but that doesn’t mean I can’t share a chest tie! Oh no- I have some pictures from previous play sessions – whoop! Chest harness tie. Mr H did these ties back in 2018 when …
The new Meme by @mlslave is aimed at riggers and rope bunnies, and of course having fun with rope! As we don’t get much opportunity to play with rope (and I love it) I showed it to Mr H and asked him if he would do this during our Sunday fun. The first week is leg tie and I was really happy when Mr H said he would do the leg tie and take pictures for me. Sweetgirl x To see more images for Tie …
My arms twisted behind my back, are secured with rope, that winds around my body. I’m dazed, relaxed, swaying slightly with each breath, lost in the feeling you have created. The sound the rope makes as it slides against itself is hypnotic, and soothing; shhhhhhhhh, shhhhhhhh, shhhhhhhh. When you bend me forward, and insert the cold steel ball of the anal hook I whimper, but not for long. It soon warms up with my body heat. This too is secured with more rope, twisting around …
It’s Friday Night and J has gone to work, MrH dropped him off and we are alone until 10pm. MrH plans to play, if the kiss he gave me earlier is anything to go by. My body had responded to that kiss like a horny wanton slut. Tea was cooked and eaten when MrH came into the room with a handful of black and said “when you have showered, shaved and so on, you are required to wear these.” Instructions. I can’t lie, my body …
There was a song I used to sing when I was little, it was on a record my dad bought me and occasionally it’s lyrics run through my mind. A reminder I suppose of innocent days before my parents separated. It was the B side to the ramblers track “only a poor little sparrow” but I loved it. You can find it on YouTube of course but it’s a poor quality recording. I think it always reminded me of my dad so that’s why I …
Bondage plays a big part of our relationship. When I first asked Mr H to consider adding BDSM elements to our relationship bondage was my starting point. I asked him to try restraining and dominating me. Mr H didn’t think I’d like being restrained and told what to do but he was willing to give it a go! Verbal Bondage Our first dabble was verbal control. He positioned me on the bed and told me “don’t move”. These simple words sent a tingle through me …