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Erotic Photography

Erotic Photography is, in my opinion rather difficult to do. I also think there is a difference between erotic and explicit and to be erotic I feel, it should intice and engage the imagination. Perhaps it can hint at or inspire a story. Submissy is a good example of this. The images she and HisLordship have shared over the years are erotic without straying into the explicit and I find them to be extremely sensual and sexy because of this. One such example can be found by clicking HERE.

Erotic Photography and Me.

I am not very good at erotic photography, and although this may change with the new camera and it’s remote functionality, there is another issue that will affect this. ME. I have to feel sexy, sensual, attractive in order to take pictures of myself, and that feeling has, shall we say, abandoned me. I am not feeling sexy at all! Much of this is to do with weightgain and that’s a boring topic, some of it because of the lockdown and then there is the bad back. These things do not add up to desire to create anything erotic.

When I got my new camera I did persuade Mr H to pose for me, and I took some photos of his hands. I had seen similar images and liked the concept enough that I wanted to recreate it. I am happy with the result as it does make me want to take his hand and see where he takes me.

Sweetgirl x

Sweet Autumn Rose  


This post was inspired by Tell Me ABout #36 ‘Erotic Photography’, and you can find more posts linked to this topic by clicking HERE.

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16 thoughts on “Erotic Photography”

  1. I love this picture of Mr H sweet, it is really good and he looks very sexy. I am glad that you are getting into taking pictures more yourself and hopefully we will see more of Mr H while you prefect your skills and get well enough to be able to do some self portraits. I always think hands are hard to take well but you have done a great job here. 🙂
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  2. Perhaps in time this painful back of yours will stop bothering you. New treatments or just plain healing! It would be nice if you were comfortable in your own skin. I think that’s when the best photos can happen. It is more difficult when pain and anxiety are present. I really like the shot of MrH holding your hands by the wrists. It really speaks of submission to me. Stay safe!
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    1. I must admit it was an image that worked very well and I do always love that particular position hehehe…

      I wish my back was eased too, its extremely debilitating, and I have no expectation of the surgery taking place before December at the earliest. ☹

  3. MrH is looking good. The only advice I can give is just keep trying different things. Make it fun and if there are good photos at the end then that’s just a bonus.

  4. I hope that once you are in a good place, we will see more erotic images from you. I look forward to see your adventures with your new camera 🙂
    ~ Marie

  5. You make a good point how there is a difference between being explicit and erotic. I like the hinting kind as it leaves you hanging, a little bit, which opens up the imagination.

    I understand how you need to feel sexy and attractive in order to take erotic pictures. During lockdown I didn’t feel that way for over 6 weeks and really couldn’t get myself to take pictures at all. I hope you start feeling more happy with your own body so you can take erotic pictures if you want, of course

  6. I love your honesty. Most of us can relate to this. “Mr H” very sensual pic. Personally to explore our sensuality , means we must dig deep and get rid of what others may think. Sexy is what we determine for ourselves without boundaries of shape, looks and size. Sexy is the expression of our innermost sensuality.

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