Exploring Kink as a Monogamous Married Couple
I love being a girl, I’ve never wanted to be anything else and I know that makes me lucky. I have never known the emotional struggle of not feeling comfortable in my own body, of having to make others understand that my gender identity is not the one I was assigned at birth. I know nothing of it. How could I? It’s not something I have experienced. My brother is gay and our parents were extremely and openly homophobic. We hated it, but given my …
I love being tied, and the new meme ‘Tie Me Up Tuesday’ is so much fun! Giving us an excuse to get the rope out more frequently. This week the tie prompt is ‘chest harness’ and unfortunately I can’t sit or stand at the moment for Mr H to do this, but that doesn’t mean I can’t share a chest tie! Oh no- I have some pictures from previous play sessions – whoop! Chest harness tie. Mr H did these ties back in 2018 when …
A few years ago we had a house fire and candles were banned, but when we began our D/s journey, and I heard about wax play, my curiosity was piqued. For a short time caution outweighed my interest but eventually, as often happens, my curiosity won and a small set of 3 candles was purchased from Amazon. First time wax play? I remember feeling a little nervous as I lay waiting for the first drip of wax to hit my skin, and I have no …
The new Meme by @mlslave is aimed at riggers and rope bunnies, and of course having fun with rope! As we don’t get much opportunity to play with rope (and I love it) I showed it to Mr H and asked him if he would do this during our Sunday fun. The first week is leg tie and I was really happy when Mr H said he would do the leg tie and take pictures for me. Sweetgirl x To see more images for Tie …
Hot Octopus sent me their ‘Amo’ to review and I was very excited. I don’t normally like bullet vibrators, they don’t have a large enough surface area but the unusual shape of the ‘Amo’ had me intrigued. At £49.00 + shipping I was expecting big things. Hot Octopus Amo – First Impressions The box is shiny and colourful, with Union Jack style lines on it. It comes with a charging cable and instruction book. The Amo is 10.5cm long. The buttons are not easy to …
My new photo meme ‘Pin Up’ has gone live! I’m very nervous and excited at the same time. I mean what if no-one joins in? There were so many positive messages of support when I announced the new meme in my post I’m still Standing , but what if? Well looks like that fear was completely unfounded, as two people had linked up by the time I went to bed last night and this morning that went to three! There is another meme that has …
On Sunday’s S2 works and we get a few hours home alone. We have been using this time to have some alone time (if you know what I mean- nudge nudge, wink wink) but I have chosen not to share the details recently. I know that seems odd given that my blog is a sex blog, but things have been a little off and I didn’t want to talk about it. Not off with us and our relationship, rather my orgasms have been difficult to …
I love to read fiction. As a teenager I would escape into a book and hide away from my life. When I read a book that really grabs my attention, the world melts away, I become so absorbed in the story that I have absolutely no idea what is going on around me, I do not hear people speaking and I completely lose track of time. For study purposes this is extremely useful but it has been quite some time since I found a book …
I am a naturally curious person. I have always wanted to know how machines work, and what makes people act the way they do. My mum says that as soon as I learned to ask “why?” she didn’t get a moments peace, never satisfied with her answers, I would ask “but why?” over and over again. My curiosity got me into trouble more than once too, when my impulsivity meant I had not thought about the possible consequences. It was this curiosity that led me …
“If you were in these arms..” Bon Jovi’s voice sings as Mr H pulls my body against his; his arms securing me to him possessively, protectively, and he whispers in my ear “I love you, I’ll please you, I tell you that I’ll never leave you.” Ok so there is come artistic licence in there, but I appreciate his effort. He knows how I am struggling again with the nightmares, and when he hugs me to him like this it always settles any anxiety I …