Exploring Kink as a Monogamous Married Couple
“I want you to fuck my ass,” was one of the first dirty things I asked Mr H for, if you don’t count spanking or asking him to be my Dominant. It was also one of the hardest things I have asked for. In fact asking him to do things to me is something I find really, really hard. But why? This is something I ask myself time and time again. Why, why, why? The thing is, I really don’t know. Why can’t I just say …
While S2 was at work on Boxing Day, we took the opportunity to play. I thought we would not be playing until the evening when S2 went out with friends and so mentally I was prepared for that. When MrH put got two glass dildos out and the doxy I wasn’t prepared. In fact I worried that my mind was not going to play well. He pointed at the door “Go for a wee.” He said. It wasn’t a suggestion it was clearly an order …
My arms twisted behind my back, are secured with rope, that winds around my body. I’m dazed, relaxed, swaying slightly with each breath, lost in the feeling you have created. The sound the rope makes as it slides against itself is hypnotic, and soothing; shhhhhhhhh, shhhhhhhh, shhhhhhhh. When you bend me forward, and insert the cold steel ball of the anal hook I whimper, but not for long. It soon warms up with my body heat. This too is secured with more rope, twisting around …
Being in the wrong mindset can ruin a carefully planned scene, and it is as important, for the Dom, as the sub to be in the right frame of mind. If either one of us isn’t feeling it then the chances are it either won’t work out, or it will take a lot of effort to make it work. So, I guess the important questions is: Mindset, what makes it, what breaks it? There are a lot of ways that my state of mind can …
I swear I can hear bells ringing, but with the blindfold in place I can’t see anything, and I know, I know that is part of the fun, but I wonder where the hell the sound is coming from. Something, his hand maybe, touches my calf and I jump a little. I am wearing stockings and so as his hand moves up my leg, it glides. I thank all the deities I can think of that I shaved my legs earlier. His hand has reached …
Well would you? Would you? I would. In fact I do, all the time. I lie to myself daily, hourly even. There are times when the lies are all I have. The biggest and most frequent one. I’m fine. People ask me, “how are you?” They don’t want the truth, they want a lie, they expect a lie. If you tell them the truth too much they hide away from it, and you. They don’t want to hear that it hurts so bad I feel …
As the year and decade end approaches we are all prone to reflect back on our achievements and failures, and to look at how we have changed and grown in the intervening years. I think Mr H and I have come a long way together in the last ten years, and even further in the last 2. This year we celebrated our 20th wedding anniversary. We have been together for 24 years and I couldn’t be happier. Honestly. I am happier than I have ever …
The prompt for Wicked Wednesday is Naughty n’ Nice, and well I do love to be naughty! I would much rather be doing naughty things with MrH than muddling along as a plain Jane; which is how I used to see myself. I decided to make this post a little different, and include a short story for your entertainment (and to give Mr H play material). Stepping into the Light For years I hid in the shadows, I didn’t want to stand out. I didn’t …
Bestvibe contacted me via Twitter and asked me if I did sponsored posts. I replied that I had not but I was willing to do a product review. They asked me to select an item from their site. I did want to review a remote controlled wearable vibrator as MrH and I have talked about this for a while. Although we do have some their range is limited and one with a phone app would be much more fun. MrH wants to be able to …
My new employer invited MrH and I to go on the Christmas Party. It was at a local venue, and as I didn’t have to go into work the next day, we decided to go. It was an opportunity for us to go out together and get dressed up. Something we haven’t done in months, with one thing and another. Making and Effort for Each Other. Being able to dress up and look pretty is something I like doing, because I want MrH to be …