Exploring Kink as a Monogamous Married Couple
Well would you? Would you? I would. In fact I do, all the time. I lie to myself daily, hourly even. There are times when the lies are all I have. The biggest and most frequent one. I’m fine. People ask me, “how are you?” They don’t want the truth, they want a lie, they expect a lie. If you tell them the truth too much they hide away from it, and you. They don’t want to hear that it hurts so bad I feel …
I never know what Mr H plans when we play, he has control of that, but this time he pulled out all the stops, spanking and anal, all the things I love. A spanking. He tucked my hair behind my left ear and his hand trailed down my neck to my breast and pinched my nipple. I gasped at the unexpected pain and I looked up at him. His other hand reached for my other nipple and he squeezed that one too – hard. The …
Twice a week The SafeworD/s Club host chats, they are an online munch if you will, a safe space to chat and share with like minded people. I join in as much as possible and if you haven’t been there click the link to create an account. (Details of the chat times are at the bottom of this post.) Last night at the chat I mentioned that I had a plan to place all MrH’s toys into drawers so he could access them more easily, …
MrH got the Doxy out, and I got out of bed and went to the loo. It’s not sexy I know but I always pee before sex, (real life right?!) and part of my worry over squirting is that although I have read the studies that say it’s not pee and I know it doesn’t smell like pee, it still a worry, so I figure if my bladder is empty then it’s not pee and I can relax. At least that’s the theory. So, on …
When the lovely Maria from Paloqueth contacted me to ask if I could review the Clit Sucker I was happy to agree. The satisfyer Hi Fashion is nice and I decided it would be interesting to compare this to the Paloqueth creation, especially as there is a huge difference in cost and Paloqueth’s other items have been very nice. Paloqueth packaging This is probably going to be the fastest review I ever do, as when it arrived earlier this evening, I had just obtained permission …
I feel like there hasn’t been much sex in my blog lately. Well I know there hasn’t. Our fabulous life that I imagined when the children had flown the nest hasn’t materialised yet, in fact, our dynamic feels like it is in need of a kick up the arse. In many ways I have not felt this distant from myself, my submission and Mr H in quite some time. Play time. We haven’t had a good reset in Months. One thing or another has meant …
I decided to review all three Satisfyer Air Pulse Vibrator Toys together as they are part of the same range, and therefore similar. If you want to see more information on the range or specific toy, click HERE to visit the Satisfyer UK website. Air Pulse Pro 2. The Air Pluse Pro 2 is rose coloured, has an angled head, uses magnetic charging and is fully waterproof. The body feels light and plasticky, and the vibrating head feels quite hard. That said the handle is …
Our plans for this week originally began with 2 nights away at our favourite hotel. Those two nights would have been filled with sex and rope and impact play. We would have dined in the restaurant, loved each other and laughed in a bubble. Instead we moved T and J into their new home and the hotel has been cancelled. Best laid plans. We focused on the following week. Making plans to get our playroom set up and painted. We could play and have a …
It isn’t often Mr H tells me to give him a blow job but it is something I find highly enjoyable. I think my favourite way is when he kneels me in front of him and as well as allowing me to pleasure him, he can also take charge and use my mouth to fuck me. There’s something, don’t ask me what, that really turns me on, when I kneel in front of him. Having his cock my my mouth too is awesome, ticks another …
We sometimes struggle to find topics to talk about, and rather than cancel I found an online kink questionnaire and we decided to go through it and see how our answers differed and what we shared an interest in. It isn’t the first time we have done these, in fact I think we have now done three or four of them. Usually I answer them and Mr H reads them, nodding or shaking his head. This time I sent him the link and we read …