What’s so great about the Satisfyer Double Joy?
I can’t remember exactly when Satisfyer sent me this toy to review, it must be…
Why we are happy being monogamous
There are many articles out there that argue monogamy is an unnatural state, and that…
What is so special about Autumn?
Autumn, that wonderful time of year when the leaves turn golden brown and russet red….
Why it’s important to have safewords
Safewords. You hear a lot about them when you first start out in BDSM and…
How to be at peace; finding your spirit animal
Many moons ago Mr. H and I visited the Lake District, we were on our…
What’s the best way to manage change?
There have been a lot of changes in our relationship over the last 2 years,…
How to carry on when you’re not feeling it
Well hello – been a while hasn’t it? I’m like the crap friend who doesn’t…
Is the lockdown really coming to an end?
The lockdown in England is about to move into the next stage of the “roadmap…
Why make changes to the site?
You may have noticed a few changes to the site appearance over the last few…
Lost passion; when one partner becomes disabled
If you are a follower of this blog, I want to thank you for sticking…
How to keep your mind from going mad
In this new lockdown, as with others, one of the things I see most on…
Real love, lockdown and being cared for.
Well hello 2021. Mr. H and I saw in the new year the way we…
Random Posts
Hot, hot, hot
There’s a new cream that the consultant has given me to help reduce inflammation and…
Christmas Surprise
I reached out and touched him. When he’s naked I’m allowed to touch without first…
No Sex, No Desire.
I have written before about how, when we are less sexually active my submission and…
Doin’ it Doggy style
The bump, the smack and the “O”
Sounds like the title to a children’s book doesn’t it? Well actually it just about…
Everyday life
It feels like ages since I blogged and yet I know it’s not. At the…